I played the games to get where I got. I am not describing any of this from the outside.
I watched them played on other people — capable, well-reviewed, repeatedly overlooked, by decisions that had been made before the meeting began. That is where I learned that being respected, being liked and being backed are three different things.
And they were played on me. It cost me sleepless nights and a backwards move I did not see coming. At the time I could not tell the difference between ordinary organisational friction and a deliberate move being made against me. Nobody had explained it. It was not secret — it was simply unwritten.